A friend of mine who happens to be a female once said,
"You know, it is better for a man to cheat on me with another male than with another female."
Surprised by the abrupt comment, I asked why.
She then went on to say,
"Cos, if he sleeps with another male, then I know the problem is with him, it is all on him.
Nothing to do with me.
I know I did not 'turn' him.
He probably had those feelings all along..."
She paused and then continued.
"... consider the alternative, he cheats on me with another woman. You know I would think I had something to do with it, maybe I drove him away or something..."
That is an alternate point of view!